Traits that make you high status

As a masculine, one of our biggest desires is to be dominant, respected and admired in other words high status. So today we are going over some quick and easy tips you can do right now to become more high status.

 

 Did you know that 60 to 65% of interpersonal communication is composed by nonverbal behaviors or body language? What is interesting and alarming is that most people spend most of their time focused on what to say but only 7% of communication is through spoken words. So the way you use your body can create a big impact on how people respond to your high stat itself.

 One of the most obvious yet ignored traits of a dominant body language is to simply take up more space think about someone who is not dominant. what type of body language should they have usually those who aren't dominant tend to make themselves small and take the least amount of space possible while the dominant has a very open body language.

More space is not to be intimidating but to be comfortable and in control of the environment in our society:

 this even happens naturally in the animal kingdom have you ever seen a happy dog, they feel good so they expand, they wag their tails while a dog who is scared tends to shrink down and fold their tails between their legs seem with cats whenever they need to establish their dominance especially with other cats they tend to expand to make themselves look bigger.

Now in humans we have a more interesting dynamic since we are a very socially intelligent species, we do not need to try to look bigger in order to be dominant but rather to show how comfortable we are in the space since we don't live in prehistoric days anymore. the biggest man doesn't mean he is the more dominant in fact if a guy tries to make himself look big he might be perceived as someone who is trying too hard to be dominant.

 The real reason behind taking more space is not to be intimidating but to be comfortable and in control of the environment in our society, however some control of the environment is the dominant person. Imagine two scenarios you are having a conversation with someone at a coffee shop and someone new walks into the shop.

 In the first scenario, the person you are talking to quickly turns around to see who came in.

 In the second scenario, the person you are talking to completely ignore the new person and just continues with the conversation,

Which one do you think is higher status?

 see low status individuals are the ones who are very reactive to their environment whenever something happens in the environment they easily lose their focus, high status individuals on the other hand are not easily controlled by their environment whether they are working on their computer or having a conversation with someone they do not lose focus on what they're doing just to react to their environment.

 State control is the practice of being in control of your emotions:

 Your state is the way you feel, your mood at any given moment. So state control is the practice of being in control of your emotions. By practicing state control you will learn to remain unaffected by outside distractions, so your emotions are only dependent on you and nothing else. One of the biggest slice about your state is that you are just along for the ride the things around you like the weather being sand in your cloudy will define whether you feel good or bad.

 But this is like being a professional athlete and depending on the cheers of your fans in order to feel good, about competing it might sound good at the moment but they won't feel in control over their own emotions. Many people think that the way they feel at any given moment is just out of their control. So what if I ask you on a scale from 1 to 10 how do you feel right now?

you play your favorite song you make it loud and then you just jam to it whether you sing or dance or head bang it doesn't matter as long as you enjoy it, the funny thing is that in 2 and 1/2 minutes you can completely change your mood, if you were feeling a 4 you might be feeling an 8 if you felt an 8 you might be at a 10. See the way you feel is fluid and it changes and you can have control over it number four the ability to be carefree.

 Most of the people we meet fall into two main categories

1. Carefree,

Most carefree people seem to always be relaxed they have a great vibe and just go with the flow of life. Carefree people are naturally more attractive because nothing seems to faze them.

2. prone to worry

People prone to worry are the opposite they hardly relaxed and their vibe can be pretty negative. See these people were not born with the ability to not worry, the reason why these people can be so careful is because they are clear on two main things

 on the things they can control and the things that matter to them a great exercise for this is to take a piece of paper and list out everything that is in your mind for around three to four minutes then go through everything you listed and circle the things that are within your control then go through the things you circled those things that you have control over and put a star on the things that really matter to you these are things you will dedicate most of your energy on see these awesome carefree people don't have zero worries but they do not give mental energy to the things, they cannot control most of the stress and anxiety in our lives are from those things out of our control.

Having ambition, a big source of energy

 Having ambition, a big source of energy for these high status individuals comes from their hunger their ambition to complete their goals to fulfill their destiny. this is one of the reasons why they are nonreactive or seem to be carefree because they are focused on one thing their mission they find the reason why they do what they do the reason why ambition plays a big role on status is because when you become incredibly passionate about your mission in life you become more fearless, since nothing is more important than to dominate your life, nothing can really take you down you create a sort of indifference to things. Unrelated to your mission making you more powerful respected and attractive.

 Be a high status person

The reason why high status people are more attractive is because everything else comes after their mission they know that most things don't matter so therefore they can enjoy their life much easier so to be a high status person you must understand that most of communication happens with your body language. So by having an open and comfortable body language you show that you are in control understand that very few things outside of yourself are actually important.

Let your ambition be the fuel:

 Therefore do not spend time reacting to them focus on practicing state control remember your emotions are not out of your control identify what you can control in what matters to you the most. this way you become more carefree and stop giving energy to things you cannot control and let your ambition be the fuel to lead you through your high status life you.